Dear friends and fans. I have written an exciting easter newsletter with a naughty story about a film celebrity,  metoo versus prudery and moving poems and videos.  Read all about it in my Easter 2023 Newsletter over here.  Love Xaviera

I gave a marvelous birthday this summer with gypsy music and Dance!  The band "The primas Tocila" from Csavas, in Transylvania, Romania, brought everybody in the right gypsy mood during this hot summer afternoon. Just now I returned from a great three weeks stay at the Edinburgh Fringe Theatre Festival, with my man Philip.


Gypsi birthdayparty xie 2019


115_The-Happy-Hookers-Guide69 orgasmic ways to pleasure a woman

Xaviera and Katje van Dijk have teamed up to produce the hottest sex advice book of the new millennium. It's hot, it's edgy and it is totally politically incorrect.

The duo scoured through thirty-two years of Penthouse Letters, yawned through all the current sex on the shelves, and checked out some of the most popular on-line advice columns in a critical attempt to see what advice men are seeking. In the process, the two women discovered that even though sex has gone mainstream, and even though people are ‘out there’ about issues that were forbidden topics forty years ago, most men are still largely clueless about how to be good lovers. It seems there’s plenty of advice, plenty of information, but yet a dearth of good lovers.

The Happy Hooker’s Guide to Sex: 69 Orgasmic Ways to Pleasure a Woman is destined to be a best seller, as it presents the best of the best advice for men in how to approach and implement great love-making, the kind of love-making that kicks off the dopamine in her brain and makes her return repeatedly for more.

The book explains in very simple terms how the heart and brain and body of a woman work together to engage her inner-slut and provides very specific and simple things to do to get her warmed up ahead of time . . . foreplay to foreplay – made easy.

Any man, no matter how attractive or unattractive, no matter how clever or brain-challenged, will benefit from reading this very fun and simple set of 69 sex tips. It will change forever how he approaches women and transform him into the Casanova he is capable of becoming.

Katje van Dijk - co-author of the Tips book

You can download the first exciting chapter of this book.

To my female readers:

Most men do not buy advice books. Fortunately, the ladies are buying them for the men. And if their man doesn't read, the clever women are reading it to their men. The book is an insignificant investment -- if he registers only a small portion of the information presented, it will be a quality of life improvement worth millions

To my male readers:

I know you don’t like advice books, and you may even have read a sex tip book recently, and came away feeling cheated. This book is different! Men who have read it say the same things:

“It is so crisp and fresh!”

“It provided me a whole new prospective on women and romance”

“I loved the quotes!”

“Although I felt I knew most of these things, much of the advice is contrary to what I thought is politically correct, so I wasn’t doing them!”

“Fun book - and I enjoyed the 50’s retro art work inside – very cool!”

This book provides a fresh approach to sex and relationships, is an easy read, and most of all, it is HUMOROUS. Sprinkled through-out the book are quotes from comedians and other famous folk. A few examples:

“Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand.” – Woody Allen (Chapter 4 No Complaints)

“There is very little advice in men’s magazines, because men think, ‘I know what I’m doing. Just show me somebody naked.” — Jerry Seinfeld (Chapter 6 Learn to Love Your Body)

“See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time.” — Robin Williams (Chapter 13 Train Your Body)

“According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful.” — Robert De Niro (Chapter 21 Engage in Dress-Up Play)

“Women might be able to fake orgasms, but men can fake a whole relationship.” —Sharon Stone (Chapter 25 Think Like a Lesbian)

Xaviera's Happy House B&B



Sleeps 2 people. Cozy - intimate atmosphere, king size bed that can also be made up as two single beds - radio,TV and Wi-Fi. Hairdryer, coffee and tea makers in all rooms, private bathroom and toilet.

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Sleeps 2 to 3 people - a spacious room, artistically decorated with king size bed, round table and four chairs, refrigerator, terrace, radio and TV as well as Wi-Fi. Coffee and tea maker in room as well as hairdryer. Private bathroom and toilet.

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Happy House B&B Amsterdam

Happy House B&B Amsterdam

Xaviera’s Happy House is the ideal bohemian place to stay at in Amsterdam for a few days, no matter why you come here: for a naughty romantic weekend, a congress at the Rai or simply as a tourist with wife and or kids. When looking for the perfect...

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Stadionweg 17, Amsterdam, Noord Holland - 1077RV, The Netherlands